How To Live Wheat, Egg, & Dairy Free – But Not Happiness Free

Food allergies are a growing health concern in today’s society. According to the Food Allergy & Anaphylaxis Network, as many as 15 million people suffer from food allergies in the US alone – and today we get the chance to hear from one of them. Jen, our wholesale merchandiser right here at the Free People home office, recently found out that has not one, but three allergies: wheat, eggs, and dairy. Today she’s sharing with us a bit of her story – and letting us know that although it can be tough, a life with food allergies can be a happy life, indeed.

What prompted you to be tested for allergies?

I was having trouble swallowing and my throat and chest would begin to get itchy after meals.


What was your first thought upon finding out that you were allergic to wheat, eggs, and dairy?

“OH SH*T!” No, really, I was in shock. I never thought that I would be allergic to anything, nevermind 3 different things! I was actually really upset.


What does a typical meal consist of for you now?

Lots of greens. Salads for lunch, vegetables, rice, and meat! I actually still have a lot of variety, though. I have found wheat-free waffles for breakfast and wheat-free pasta for dinner, so I still eat typical meals — just with substitutes. :)


How do you feel now, compared to before you changed your diet? Have your symptoms subsided?

I feel amazing. I haven’t had any issues swallowing. I have a lot more energy, which was a huge bonus I didn’t see coming out of this. I used to get really tired mid-day, but that doesn’t happen anymore. I have a better state of mind overall because I’m not tired and uncomfortable. I’m much happier!


Which food do you miss the most?

It’s a tie between sweets and bread! Swirl ice cream cones from Mr. Softy, chocolate cake, peanut butter smidgens from Gertrude Hawks (my favorite candy ever). I could literally cry right now realizing I cannot have a Carvel Ice cream cake for my birthday this year — I have had one every single year since I was 10. Maybe I will just have a bite this year… And I miss having a sandwich on a big soft roll! My fake bread is not as soft and tasty. :)


Is there any food that you’ve been introduced to on this new diet and LOVE?

My husband is the cook in our household and it has actually encouraged him to be more adventurous with different types of seasoning and sauces on our meat, rice, and vegetables. It’s not really new food — it’s more new things & substitutes we have put on our food, which has been fun for our whole family. Even our son likes a lot of the stuff I eat. Things like subbing in coconut milk in mashed potatoes is something so small but healthier and still tastes good!


What advice or words of encouragement would you offer to those with recently diagnosed allergies?

It does get easier! My first three weeks I really, really struggled. I was in tears some nights after eating the same things for days straight. Rice Krispies in coconut milk for breakfast, fruit as a snack, salad for lunch, and meat/vegetable/rice for dinner — I ate that for pretty much 3 weeks straight because I was terrified to eat something with eggs, dairy, or wheat in it. I have never had a big interest in cooking, probably because I am terrible at it!! It was really hard for me to introduce new things because I didn’t want to take the time out of my busy schedule to figure out what I could actually eat.

Finally I started doing some research and getting suggestions from others. There are a ton of other people out there who have allergies or are on special diets, which has been really helpful. Both my sisters-in-law have allergies so they were my go-to people. Wegmans has been a godsend — they have a lot of pre-packaged things that I can eat, which is perfect for me!




After doing a bit of research, Jen has discovered some sweet alternatives that actually taste like real sweets – and she wanted to share them with us! Here are Jen’s suggestions, and a little blurb from her about each one:


So Delicious Chocolate Peanut Butter Swirl Ice Cream


This has been my after dinner treat. Made with coconut milk instead of cow milk, it actually tastes like real ice cream! (unlike much of the other non-dairy “ice cream” I tried).


Immaculate Fudge Brownie Cookie Dough


I cannot believe these cookies are wheat, dairy, and egg free. They taste amazing and I have had people ask me where I got the recipe. Well, they are actually just from a pack and only take 13 minutes in the oven, but I like to pretend I “made” them.


Dark Chocolate


Some dark chocolate also has milk chocolate in it, but if you go to a true chocolate store where they make it, they usually have pure dark chocolate, which is milk free. I like to get it with almonds since I am just getting used to the taste of dark chocolate.


Wegmans Gluten Free Pancake Mix


I love breakfast any time of day, especially some really good pancakes. My husband mixes coconut milk to make them and they taste just as good as regular pancakes (maybe a little less fluffy).

*If you don’t have a Wegmans near you, look for the gluten-free aisle of your health food store.

Do you have any delicious recipes for wheat-free, egg-free, dairy-free foods? Please share them below!


  1. thank you i can’t eat wheat, eggs, or diary. i just found out so this is great information for me.
    thank you

  2. Oh my goodness, you ladies os totally have to check this out:

    I have made probably 15 of her recipes so far, gluten-free (no wheat!), egg free, & no dairy- she has a page on how to substitute ingredients, & how to work with gluten free flours.

    Here is her substitutions page:

    Seriously miraculous. We’re talking homemade chocolate chip cookies, cakes, muffins, scones, you name it. :)

  3. & as a side note, I completely understand- in addition to wheat, soy, and a variety of beans and nuts I have a nightshade intolerance. For years and years I was covered in spots that would come & go, when I was a little girl they told me it was “my nerves” and then as a teenager “my hormones” and as an adult it was “adult acne”. FInally, on an elimination diet (one of many) my mom & I discovered it was nightshades! So no tomatoes, potatoes or potato starch, chilies or peppers, cayenne, paprika, tobacco (the hardest part, asking others not to smoke around me…) etc. At first I was pretty horrified, but after a few years of adjustment it is amazing what you can do without these ingredients- my wonderful boyfriend has even figured out how to make a delicious barbecue sauce using molasses and vineger. :)

  4. I am allergic to most of the cabbage family including broccoli and kale as well as onions and garlic. You’d be surprised how much of an issue it is at restaurants.

    If your dairy allergies are limited to just the cow variety, there are a lot of great cheeses you can get made out of goat cheese. My sister in law has a cow dairy allergy and whole foods even helped us find a blue cheese made from goat milk, which I guess is very rare.

  5. Hey I don’t know if it’s too late for the writer’s birthday but, I’m lactose intolerant and LOVE ice cream cake! This year my amazing boyfriend, knowing that I love ice cream cake but can’t have it, made me an ice cream cake out of So Delicious coconut milk ice cream. SO AMAZING! He even added crushed up dairy free chocolate cookies between the layers instead the crunchy things in Carvel cakes. See if you can find a recipe so you can still have your cake :)

  6. I follow your blog and love some of the recipes I find here! I don’t have any allergies however I just found out that I have high cholesterol and need to avoid fats. Any chance you guys can post some delicious, healthy fat free recipes? Thanks!

  7. thanks! just learned need to completely eliminate wheat, dairy & eggs, not just ease off them a bit as told previously. is upsetting, difficult & expensive, even though am told gets easier with time & getting used to examinating every label! reading this, though, has made me feel bit less lonely, awkward & annoyed about the situation. plus, not being able to sink my teeth into a big cheese sandwich with mayonaise is helping me to lose weight -bonus & cheers to that!

  8. hi! my son just got diagnosed with the same three allergies … he is only 8 and bummed but surprisingly working hard to stay on track … where are you from might I ask bc when I saw Gertrude Hawks I was like omg, yes the best chocolate ever, because I grew up where they make it. I am trying to get him used to the coconut choc ice cream substitute, just got it last night! he will eat sorbet over it though. I am having hard time baking bc recipes still call for eggs. I would rather use whole foods over any imitation stuff but I like the coconut alternatives. thanks for sharing.

  9. have since 2005 that I know that I have severe allergies. It has been very complicated for me and a lot of treatments. Different kind of medication allergies that do not work for me I’ve tried everything my doctor day says that I do not have a cure. But allergies can just get treated not cured I had tried natural herbs stuff to help me with my allergies one of them did work it was a skunk Oreos.I had tried that for a whole year but I got tired of the f****** the Orioles in my drink I wasn’t taking any medication and it was working for me. Now I have asthma and my allergies have gotten worse and I cannot eat anything that has in the milk any egg any wheat if I do and I don’t know that that food contains those products. I start having problems breathing and then I inject myself with the event 10 which helps me but I have to call I have to call the ambulance soon as possible 9 and up in the hospital. Its hard for me complicated I would love to eat the food I haven’t eaten a piece of cake and I even drink lactose free milk um so I’m out and even that really um I’m allergic to it too and it’s complicated.

  10. Help! My little 2 year old is bit allowed wheat dairy or eggs. We discovered after she had grommets under GA two months ago. They did a while heap if allegy tests and that and sesame seeds are a huge ‘no no’. She suffered from terrible sinus and ear infection from 1yr old until the surgery. Anyway, taken her off the three foods and she is a much happier, more energetic little girl. I am struggling to keep up. However, we struggle with breakfast. She really misses toast and cheese sticks snacks. Any ideas for breakfast? Please…

  11. I have found it very difficult to use any manufactured spices or oil/vinaigrette type dressings due to the natural flavor and modified food starches sometimes being derived from milk or wheat compounds. According to my research food manufacturers aren’t required to list what natural flavored ingredients are specifically because many manufactures hide their “secret ingredient” to their products under the “natural flavored” category for protection of their recipes. This is bad for an allergy sufferer because if any ingredient containing a specific allergy compound is derived from or used as a preservative in the product it’s not usually on the package labeling. I basically eat all natural self made meals, spices, etc. If I try to eat anything with milk, wheat, egg, natural favors and/or modified food starch I go into an anaphylactic reaction within 2-10 minutes deepening on the amount consumed. It’s been horrible, average reaction has been 2-3 times per week unless I just stick to eating only homemade foods. However, as bad as this all sounds I’m thankful to be eating much healthier now.

  12. Wow! This is a very useful page and I really enjoyed reading article and all users’ comments. BG Bakes is an online store which provides Gluten Free and Allergen Free products. We use high quality ingredients. Our customer’s health is our first priority. Thank you for sharing valuable information.

  13. The immaculate cookies contain eggs! I’m allergic to eggs and I’ve double checked this on their website

  14. Just wanted to share some awesome information! I just recently found out that I am allergic to Venison, egg,corn, cows milk, beef, wheat, soy, and chocolate. My allergist said after I take these drops 3 times a day for three to five years, they test again in 3, I will be cured of all allergies except Venison. Yea! I am so excited that this will no longer be my way of life! I see a chocolate Chip cookie in my future!

  15. We just found out my son has these allergies. He is also allergic to almonds and coconut, so I can’t use almond milk or coconut. I’m very overwhelmed and so is he. No wheat, gluten, soybean, coconut, almonds and eggs. I’m struggling finding things for him. Suggestions welcomed.


  16. Three days ago allergy test confirmed a high allergy to wheat/ gluten, eggs, all dairy/Cheese… Even goat. Also high allergy to almond, cashew, mustard, green beans!, and a moderate allergy to another 20 foods I like to eat. I’ve suffered from IBD for twelve years, hives daily and extreme joint pain, so I’m fully aware I have to eliminate these foods…… It’s just sad. I’m a great cook and have been resourceful, but I know this is going to completely change my life. Friends and family are going to judge. No more eating out. I’ll be the vegan meat eater!!! Messed. How many others can claim this crappy luck? And how long until you started feeling better? And when you introduced these foods back in months later in small amounts, did you instantly get sick again?

  17. I have to say my health is so much better. The allergies to egg, wheat, milk, gluten free oatmeal, lentils, peas, eggplant, whey protein, pea protein, and a few antibiotics, and pectin, cane sugar and walnuts. Beer is on the list also and I never miss it. I missed eating those other foods I grew up with and now I don’t have the sadness I used to have, but I experience the sadness of others who can’t enjoy my participation in what they can eat. They appear compassionate and uncomfortable when they learn of my limitations. Since 2006, for 10 years now, I’ve changed in energy, and shape. The only thing is I wish I had found out 25+ years earlier. I would have enjoyed my teens through the present time of excellent health. What I did first was change my diet without any help. No one gave me recipes. I only had a pantry list from a lab that told me I was allergic to those foods I mentioned. I had to go on thyroid medicine and my digestion was constantly getting upset. I had to eat sparingly like thin, spicy soups and water everything down and blended and eat small portions every two-three hours. I couldn’t tolerate bulk, fiber or anything solid that wasn’t watered down. I had burning gallbladder problems and I had to learn to food combine so as not to create blockages. When I finally learned what I could eat, I could also begin to eat thicker portions and now I rarely have any digestive problems. I just got used to healthier eating. I feel great, have more energy, no swelling or joint pains. I am perceived by others as younger than I am but I don’t socialize well with my own age group because of it. I can eat normal portions of hamburger and fish. Eating is still a big deal but now it’s more about socializing at the table with others, and I avoid such situations because it’s lonely being different. Yet, I’m not diabetic, I don’t have any health complications or other medicines except for the thyroid which has become a common medicine to take. I feel happy I can enjoy many good foods: ocean caught fish, brown rice, vegetables, berries, coffee, and beans and chickpeas, saute mushrooms, beef and avocados to name my favorites. Once in a while I treat myself to chocolate coconut ice cream and soaked raw almonds. I just make sure that I don’t become B1 and B12 deficient. I wish everyone else to try and adjust slowly. Use a good food processor if you have to. You will need a lot of nutrition. I forgot to mention some other great foods I have frequently: They are Spring salad, sweeteners like honey, maple syrup, stevia, agave nectar, dark chocolate bars, mints, and apples, oranges and bananas. It’s a good diet. I gave up the pectin because I was getting swelling in some joints in the feet ( no more). I gave up walnuts because it competes with my medicine. Overall, my health is great and I feel like contributing to others and I feel like studying again.

  18. If anyone has any questions, please reply. If you feel you need more fiber which I do not, try flax meal and whatever fiber agrees with you. If you need more protein, like I do, try Hemp protein powder. I like just plain without extra fiber. I also eat potatoes sparingly because they can have a sedative effect and I eat them only when I really want to. Oils of preference for me are grapeseed oil, coconut oil, fish oil and balanced vit E. We need it for our brain health. Juices of preference are fresh lemon in distilled water, and aloe vera juice and sometimes cranberry juice without pectin or sugar added. I gave up the orange juice because of the pectin. Pectin can cause joint pain and bunions. I love sea salt, cayenne pepper, and grapewine vinegar for flavoring main dishes, especially the beans, and hamburger and rice. I love probiotics and enzyme supplements. I just about covered everything. Egg substitutes like duck egg didn’t work out well for me. Somehow it increased my bp- so I didn’t try again. If anyone else has any ideas to contribute, please reply.

  19. Hello,

    I know for a fact that I am allergic to eggs, dairy, and wheat; Can you recommend a cookbook I may buy?

    Thank you,


  20. My grandson has a long list of allergens so I bought a Yonanas. You use frozen fruit and it makes it like ice cream. The best invention ever.

  21. ok I just found this group. I need help. Bad, I’m 33 and just found out that the reason I have stayed sick for many years and choke up when I eat is bacause I’m allergic to ALL Eggs, Cows Milk, Wheat, Oat, Corn and Peanuts :-( why peanuts? why corn and wheat? my favorite things????? peanut butter and bread and Tortillias……. really??? I’m at a loss and very glad they now know what has been causing me to get sick, but, I’m also at a loss. please help.

  22. Amber – I hate to hear you’re struggling but it’s great that you got some answers to your health woes! Changing your diet can be scary and confusing, but the road to health can often be bumpy <3 I'd recommend picking up a few cookbooks that are specific to your new dietary restrictions to get you started. All of those ingredients, save for the eggs, are actually not allowed on a Paleo diet, so you could look into some paleo-specific cookbooks. Check out the Whole 30 (and the accompanying books and website, which has a TON of forums), Against All Grain, and Practical Paleo. I also love My New Roots, the Oh She Glows Cookbook, and Deliciously Ella (some of these recipes contain oats, but not many). There are a TON of blogs and sites online, too. It may sound like the door slammed shut on your favorite foods, but with a little experimenting, you might discover some new ones! Best of luck!

  23. Just have a question . I am allergic to milk soy milk eggs peppers bananas and fish . I am desperately trying to loose weight . Just need some ideas of food that I can have. Thanks

  24. Lucille I would love to sink my teeth into barbeque .Can you give me the recipe for barbeque made with molasses! I have allergies to eggs ,tomatoe,and if I come in contact with msg it makes my heart have tachycardia.

  25. Wow, its amazing to know I am not alone. At 72 diagnosed allergic to milk, eggs, wheat, potatoes and soybean. Good to read that there is wheat free waffles, now must find out what else is in them. But, now i know to look for it at least. Thanks to all for your helpful comments.

  26. Hi, just wondering if you are from Buffalo? You mention Mr. Softy and Wegmans so I know its someplace close. I was just diagnosed with a Wheat, dairy & egg allergy and I’m at a loss as to what I can eat for breakfasts. I’m not a big baker so I was hoping for some super easy breakfast ideas. Any help would be appreciated. Mary Adele

  27. Hi I have been struggling most of my life I am 54 wheat milk egg peanut as well as some grasses and medication allergic it has been 6 weeks now that I have found out I have always had allergies and asthma. I just however found out about the food. It is a journey but one that can be exciting. I am currently having zolair shots and a brand new diet I’m not to sure how I’m feeling about the whole thing. Thank for all your stories

  28. Just wanted to thank everyone for their posts. My son is 8 and I believe he is allergic to soy, dairy, grains and nuts. Most spices have some problems too. It is hard. We have been weeding out all the foods that are causing him diarrhea and the truth is it is overwhelming. But there are alternatives and he is losing weight so that is good. If we can stick to the non processed foods we will be healthier for it.

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