Navigating the desire to translate something experiential into something verbal, while also hoping that your listener will remain interested and responsive.
Deepening intimacy can be as wonderful as it is terrifying. Learning to trust your partner can feel bumpy at best, and at other times, like reaching into your chest, pulling out your heart, and handing it over to the other person to take care of.
The good news, kind of, is that ruts are going to happen again and again over the course of a long-term relationship. It’s nice when a couple can recognize the signs they’re beginning to swing too far into it and take ownership of how they’re showing up…
This space serves as a place of healing and wonder, redeeming the cast-out witches, queens and goddesses in you, the modern woman.
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“Dear Brian… my boyfriend hates my cats. We’ve been together a while but I don’t see how it can go anywhere else because he refuses to live with them. He says we can move in together when they’re “gone.” What do I do?” Read More
Question: “My boyfriend has terrible style…I especially hate his ugly sneakers but he thinks he looks great and I don’t want to hurt his feelings. How do I get him to start dressing more fashionably?” Read More