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DO: Stay in touch

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It’s funny how life events coincide around similar themes to get you thinking. I went back to my hometown for visit the other weekend and brought a good friend from Philly along. I got to see some old friends and spent quality time with family. The warmth I felt from seeing everyone made for a good weekend, and also coincided with the conversation my friend and I had had on the car ride up.

She was telling me about an article she read that summarized the top five life regrets people report on their deathbed – one of which was losing touch with friends. They wished that they hadn’t let themselves get so caught up in the day-to-day here and now, and instead, picked up the phone or written a letter once in a while. People who once really mattered got lost in the mix of life, but in the end what’s going to matter is who you’ve loved and who loves you back.

In the days following my visit my thoughts resonated on this article and my hometown visit. Some of my friends weren’t around when I was home, and I found myself wanting to give them a call. I’ve vowed to try and do better at staying in touch, so that I don’t let those people get away. Especially today, with all of our technology – smart phones and email – there’s no excuse to not take a little bit of time. Learn from what the dying have said and stay in touch. When you come to the end of your road, you don’t want to be looking back with the same regrets.

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12 years ago

In the end, loved ones are what will matter most. Lovely post, as always!

12 years ago

this is so true, it’s important to take a second to stop and make time for the ones you love.

12 years ago

It’s so true. This has been something that’s come up for me a few times over the years, and I try to make sure to stay in close touch with those relationships that have been significant. Facebook helps, but a phone call means so much more.

Ann Vidgoff
12 years ago

Great Photos! Loved every one of them!